Archive | August, 2012

Girl Who is Changing the World: Katherine Layton

30 Aug

Katherine Layton is in her third year at the University of Texas in Austin, and she is the founder of a new non-profit organization called Gifts From US. Earlier this month, I met Layton at a community event where she was speaking. As a Rodeo Austin scholar, she was speaking to this year’s scholarship recipients, donors and volunteers—sharing with them her personal story and offering words of wisdom and encouragement.

I knew a little bit about Layton prior to the event. I’d learned about her efforts to help families in Central Texas whose homes had been destroyed by the wildfires. Discovering what she could do for others after a disaster led her to create her organization, Gifts From Us.

When I got the opportunity to interview Layton, I was asking her questions for my weekly column in which I write about charity. But, in the back of my mind, I knew she was a “Girl Who Is Changing The World.”

In fact, the day I heard about Layton was the same day that the Love Infinitely Project shared a statistic about volunteering. According to Love Infinitely, adults who began volunteering as youth are twice as likely to volunteer as those who did not when younger. Still fresh on my mind along with the assumption that someone had taught her the importance of volunteering, I asked Layton if she had grown up volunteering in her community.

My mother taught me that there are so many people out there that are less fortunate than I am, and I just need to help people,” says Layton. “You never know when life is going to have you down, and you need someone to pick you up.”

Layton recalled her father’s passing. Two days before her twelfth birthday, her father passed away. Her family endured struggle and hardship afterwards, but she says she continued to volunteer in her community. Despite her sadness and loss, she knew she still had something to give.

When the Central Texas wildfires broke out last year, Layton feared her family would lose their house. It would be days before she and her family would learn the fate of their home. In the meantime, she started collecting clothing and other necessities for families. Fortunately, the wildfires missed her current house but burned the house she grew up in that was still filled with her passed father’s memorabilia and memories.

When disaster hit her hometown, she realized she could make a difference in her community and around the world. In June, Gifts From US held a garage sale with 100 percent of proceeds benefiting the tornado victims in the Dallas/Fort Worth area. Currently, the organization is accepting donations for the families affected by the Colorado fires.

The mission of Gifts From US is to help people get back on their feet when they are at their lowest point. Nothing hurts more than losing everything, and the organization strives to give back what they once had–or at least relatively close to it. Layton hopes that Gifts From US will someday be able to also help those outside of the U.S. The “US” in the non-profit’s name stands for United States, and she’s willing to take her services wherever she is needed.

Learn more about Gifts From US: http://www.giftsfromus.org/about-us.html

Like them on FB: https://www.facebook.com/GFUSdisasterrelief

Follow them on Twitter: http://twitter.com/GiftsfromUS

Story by Love Infinitely Global Love Leader: Amanda Ivarra

**If you know a super rad girl that you would like to nominate for our ‘Girls Who Are Changing the World’ feature, send them to us at: girls@loveinfinitely.org

Kristen’s Story…

23 Aug

We received this incredibly heartfelt story from the lovely Kristen Leeb. Being so moved by her words, we asked if we could share it with all of you…

“A few years ago, I was diagnosed with an illness that is almost as deliberating as cancer. It can tear you apart, and turn you into your worst enemy. It can wreck any relationship or friendship that you have. It can make you into someone you never wished to be. This is depression.

When I first found out that I had depression, I tried to fight it. But, eventually the overwhelming emotions start to control you. They make you say things you wish you hadn’t, and do things you regret. I’m not going to go into great detail of what I have turned to over the past two years, but let’s just say that it’s something not good. I will admit that I became addicted to something, that would temporarily release any pain or stress I had. Through many failed attempts to over come this, I have realized that the only thing that helps me is to help others.

My dream is to finish my schooling and achieve a masters in psychology. I hope to use my experiences, the good and the bad, to be there and support others just like me. I know what it’s like to be alone, but I also know what it feels like to be feel good and happy again. I want to be able to make that happen for someone.

Say, you had one year to live. Would you be doing what you are doing right now? Would you be stuck in your hometown working a 9 to 6 shift at a drug store? No. Well, that’s where I am at right now. I have even contemplated quitting my job of three years, and travelling. Anything, to be able to find my purpose in life. I want my life to mean something, and I want to make a difference. I truly believe that I wouldn’t be here today if I wasn’t called to help others.

When I first heard about To Write Love on Her Arms, I couldn’t believe the story. It was similar to mine in a way. This was also the first organization I had heard that meant so much to me. It was dedicated to raising hope and awareness from exactly the things that I was dealing with. I bought my first shirt, and wore it with pride. I am not my scars, or my past. I am not ashamed of my scars, and I do not regret them. I wouldn’t be who I am today without going through what I have. And for that, I thank my diagnosis. 121 million people suffer from depression worldwide. I am not ashamed to say that I am a part of this statistic and I am a fighter. Some may think that I regret my addiction and what I do. I don’t, because it has made mea stronger person today. It made me a fighter.

I started a fundraiser through Crowd Rise where I am hoping to raise money for TWLOHA. You do not have to have gone through anything like this to support people dealing with self harm, depression, or suicidal thoughts. Sometimes all people want to know is that they’re not alone. Don’t judge someone based on the marks they have on their arms. You don’t know what they’ve beenthrough. Rather, be proud of them for making through it.”

You can donate to her fundraiser for TWLOHA here: http://www.crowdrise.com/mentalhealthawarenes/

♥∞

*To Write Love on Her Arms is a non-profit movement dedicated to presenting hope and finding help for people struggling with depression, addiction, self-injury and suicide. TWLOHA exists to encourage, inform, inspire and also to invest directly into treatment and recovery.*

Girl Who Is Changing The World: Sarah Strong

16 Aug

Three years ago, after living through a domestic violence situation and surviving a brutal rape committed by a work colleague, Sarah Strong founded Not This Girl, a nonprofit dedicated to providing resources and a community to survivors of domestic and sexual violence.

According to statistics, more than seventeen-million American women have suffered through an attempted or completed rape.  Domestic violence numbers are even more startling with some estimates putting intimate partner violence at nearly four-million attacks each year. 

The mission of Not This Girl is to build a community that supports those affected by sexual and domestic violence through empowerment, offering a bridge to resources, creating awareness and encouraging change.   Sarah has tirelessly worked to make her vision of a community of connection and a force for change into a reality.  She worked through her own pain and struggle, looked past it in order to use her experiences to help others.  Leaving a successful business career and using her own funds to start and run Not This Girl until other funding could be found, Sarah worked relentlessly to give hope by creating NTG and continues to do so by creating the Library of Hope.

“At NotThisGirl.com we speak uncomfortable truths while offering resources to the wounded. We’re not experts though many on our leadership team know violence and suffering intimately. We have lived through or are watching as loved ones endure the brutal affects of domestic violence or sexual assault, including the often agonizing recovery process.

We acknowledge our righteous anger at the level of brutality being experienced and are openly exploring ideas of faith, community, transparency, accountability and forgiveness as a means to promote peace and security.”

The Library of Hope (scheduled to launch in September), an online collection of resources both for victims and for those working to help them. We’re working to end the silence that surrounds domestic and sexual violence, telling powerful truths by sharing stories, connecting one another to resources, and spreading hope. We’re working to spread the message, “You are not alone.”

I nominated Sarah as a Girl Who is Changing the World because I’ve watched her change it on a daily basis.  She has not only accomplished and continues to accomplish incredible things with Not This Girl and The Library of Hope, but she also changes the immediate world around her just by being Sarah Strong.
She is extremely perceptive of others’ thoughts and feelings, extends great grace and understanding to those around her, and is always ready to offer a listening ear or helping hand.  Living transparent, the honesty and strength she possesses in the face of what she has lived through, inspires and spreads hope to those she comes in contact with.  Meeting Sarah Strong has changed my life and I know I’m not the only one.

Learn more about Not This Girl & The Library of Hope:

Not This Girl Offical Website: http://notthisgirl.com/

Follow the Library of Hope on Twitter: @LibraryOfHope
~Nominated by friend & Not This Girl employee, Erin Lodes

**If you know a super rad girl that you would like to nominate for our ‘Girls Who Are Changing the World’ feature, send them to us at: girls@loveinfinitely.org