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31 Days of Giving Part II

28 Nov

I have found that among its other benefits, giving liberates the soul of the giver. — Maya Angelou

Long before Love Infinitely Project existed or I’d even come up with the symbol, I did this fun “experiment“. It was around this time exactly 3 years ago in 2009. Inspired by the Ellen Show’s 12 Days of Giveaways, I decided to do my own version only extend it to the full month of December. A full thirty-one days.

After that month I decided to try out a full 365 days and my original pre-love infinitely blog, Kindness is Contagious was born. Where I wrote about my experience in giving for a full year. It is no surprise that by that summer I’d dreamed up the Love Infinitely logo and by the end of the year had the idea for the Love Infinitely Project. Within months we launched and here we are today.

Talk about a life changing/transformative experience.

So, I want to do it again, only this time I am going to invite all of you to join me. Starting on December 1st, we here at Love Infinitely are going to start our brand new 31 Days of Giving Challenge. We plan on giving a gift/donation/time to a person(s)/organization daily for 31 days.

It doesn’t have to cost you anything or take up too much extra time. Trust me, the opportunities will come to you. Especially once you decide to take this on. In fact, some of you may realize that you are already giving so much on a daily basis. And some of you may decide that this needs to become a regular part of your every day life. It has become a part of ours.

What I love about doing this challenge at this time of the year is that there are so many opportunities to give. The holidays are the perfect time. It becomes so much fun and allows you to get creative with your giving. Give to those closest to you, co-workers, friends, neighbors, complete strangers, your favorite organizations… Anyone you are inspired to give to.

We’ll also help you along if you are at a loss for what to do. We will be sending out ideas, inspiration, theme days, our favorite causes and more to help you along. Of course, we will also be giving things away all month-long to YOU!

Those of us here will be sharing our adventures in giving and we encourage you to share with us what you are doing. Share with us via Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, leave comments here or through email. We will re-tweet, re-post and re-blog all of you as we go along and give you re-caps of everyone’s week in giving.

It is going to be one fantastic month!

Tomorrow we will be posting a bunch of great ideas to get you prepared for the 1st.

Get ready and join us for the ‘31 Days of Giving‘.

♥∞

~B & the Love Infinitely Team

Follow us on Twitter: @LoveInfinitelyP

**Read more about the inspiration behind this here**

Kindred Spirits: Nicole Mathew

18 Apr

Now that we are officially 1 year old, we want to highlight some of the wonderful people who have supported us from the beginning.  We’ll be featuring a few amazing friends and find out why they were drawn to the project.

This week we meet super friend, Nicole Mathew from Indianapolis, Indiana.  She is a content Administrator & Marketing Assistant by day; Freelance editor/writer by night.

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Volunteer Weeks 3, 4 & 5: Animal Aid Unlimited

4 Jan

The 3rd stop on the Fall Into Adventure outreach/research trip was Animal Aid Unlimited in Udaipur, Rajathan (India).  It is an animal hospital and sanctuary for unowned street animals and home to more than 100 dogs, cows, bulls, donkeys, pigs, 2 tortoises, the occasional cat and 1 monkey named, Raju.  I spent almost 3 full weeks here and it was the experience that changed me the most.  So much happened in my time there that it’s taken me a while to process it all…

I first visited Animal Aid in 2010 on a tour of  Rajasthan.  I only spent one day volunteering but I promised that I would come back again soon and stay for longer.  I’m sure I surprised everyone (including myself) when I emailed Erika a few months ago letting her know of my plans to return.  I expressed interest in working with children while I was there as well and we shot ideas back and forth through email for weeks.  The ideas began to solidify and we decided on doing educational outreach with local school children.  We hit roadblocks on the way to creating the program because most adults didn’t understand what we were doing and why, but we made it work.

On the first day I met with Trudy who is the Volunteer Coordinator.  We discussed what volunteers do, took a tour, met the animals and discussed the new program.  She explained to me that it might be difficult to get children to Animal Aid and that we’d do our best to get kids for the program.  (Adults, officials, principles and teachers don’t understand why educational outreach with animals is important.  Most of it has nothing to do with kids at all and is actually quite political.)  We decided that it would be best for the first 2 or 3 days that I just learn the ropes and get to the know the animals.  And as Trudy put it, ‘pick out my dogs’.  But they ended up picking me.

After a few days, I figured out the rhythm of the place.  You can make your volunteer experience specialized to what you want to do.  I talked to some of the other long term volunteers and realized that it is unique to each person.  There are different areas of the hospital:

  • Upper Puppy Town ~ Where the puppies live! All of them with injuries that are currently being treated until healthy enough for release.
  • Lower Puppy Town ~ The healthier puppies are taken here during the day hours so they can play outside of the kennels.
  • Paralyzed ~ Where our permanent paralyzed residents live. The newer paralyzed dogs are usually in upper puppy town.
  • Mange ~ Where the mange dogs live.  There’s also a separate mange puppy town for the little ones.
  • A Kennel ~ Where the dogs with the most severe injuries live.
  • Cattle ~ Cattle has 2 sections, the smaller rest/treatment areas and the big open area where the healthy animals run free.

Newly paralyzed dogs live in the kennels closest to the office.

There are also the ‘shelter dogs’ (permanent residents, the official pets) which run around in their territories.  One of the first rules I learned was to be EXTRA CAREFUL when opening and going through gates.  Though all the dogs are friendly to people, they don’t all like each other.  Accidentally letting a dog through a gate could be an injury (or worse) waiting to happen.  There’s a lot of quibbling between the dogs as they are all 100% street dogs and incredibly territorial.  Keeping everyone safe, human and animal, is the number 1 priority.

After just a few days I became very comfortable with the animals and found my own schedule.  My first stop was (almost) always paralyzed.  Saying hi to everyone, shifting around Jimmy Supa Fly so he was comfy and then sitting with Karl for a while.  I’d usually sing (quite badly) to him.  It was our time.  Then I usually popped over to the mange puppy area to make sure their water was fresh and for some kisses and cuddles, then off to cattle to say hello to the herd.  Checking on the severely injured (like Jigger) and petting the healthy ones.  I would settle into lower puppy town towards the end of the day after all my other work was done.

There were always animals on the way in and on their way out on a daily basis.  Once an animal has recovered from their injuries they are released back into the neighborhood in which they were found.  Pets are a rare thing in India.  Most people don’t have animals as companions.  If they have an animal (usually cows, buffalo, goats and donkeys) it is usually a working animal.  Animal Aid works with street animals and since adoptions are rare, the animals are released back to their neighborhoods.  The only animals that are not released are the paralyzed dogs, amputee/handicapped  animals of any kind, donkeys and pigs.

A healthy bull getting loaded onto the ambulance for release. He didn't want to go.

Figuring out what the program with the children was going to be was a difficult task.  We faced resistance from officials and started to mold it into an educational experience for one child from a local school every day.  The program started a few days into my 1st week.  The goal is to educate the younger generation on the beauty of animals and hope one day they will grow up to make India a better place for all creatures.  Animal Aid sets a great example of compassion and kindness for street animals but the major change will come only by educating the future generations.  Most kids (and adults) are afraid.  We found that dogs and donkeys were the most feared by kids.  (I’m most afraid of the abundance of black cobras…)  We introduced them to the animals and talked about what being kind to all creatures meant to them.

A perfect snapshot of a typical day for me at Animal Aid.

Each day at noon (after chai time) Trudy would go pick up a child from the local school and we were off!  I was given full freedom to create the program as I wished.  Which was awesome!  I love love LOVED being able to design something so amazing!  Each child was a whole new experience tailored to their likes, dislikes, knowledge and fears.  It was a truly heart and mind opening experience each time.  I loved every child we got!  And proved that at our most basic nature, we are kind and loving beings.  I may have to post another blog just on this program because it was the beginning of something truly magical!

It is our nature to be kind.

Something incredibly fun happened in my 2nd week; on a particularly crazy busy day, Trudy asked me if I could lead some of the tours as she was going to be doing other things.  Heck yeah!  Being a former Disney Performer and Stage Manager, I’m pretty good at being in front of an audience and leading tour groups.  I had a ball!  I loved every second of it!  I kept being asked to do it after that day.  Every time I got to lead a tour it was like someone had given me a birthday present!  Everyone joked that I just needed to move to Udaipur and become the permanent Tour Leader.  (I don’t really think they were joking though…)  I also got to help Trudy with Volunteer Coordinator duties and help the new volunteers find their way.

By the end of my stay I felt like I had really found my place at Animal Aid.  Days were normally quite busy for all of us.  Especially on days when I was the only volunteer, which were too many.  On average there were usually only about 3 of us.  The few days we had more than 4 volunteers were glorious!  Having the extra bodies makes all the difference!  Everything gets done and the energy is high!  Those were my favorite days.  The work also tends to be emotionally difficult and having people to talk to really helps.  We need a group therapy session at the end of each day.  There were a few days that were especially hard.  Emergency situations that I had never found myself in before.  Life or death stuff…  (That could be an entire post unto itself as well.)  But there were also days that were just a dream.

I have a REALLY AWESOME follow up to how we can all get involved in helping Animal Aid without leaving the house, but I’m still working on the details.  I will unveil my grand plan soon.  But it’s all part of a bigger mission: to create awareness for Animal Aid and get MORE volunteers.  As amazing as their staff is, they need bodies.  For a day, a week, or a month.  I want to take on the official role of coordinating volunteers and volunteer trips for them.  I have so much information and knowledge after this, I would be happy to be the person that points the way.

This is just a teeny tiny bit of my 3 weeks of work and there is SO MUCH MORE but I will have to save some for future posts.  I made some amazing friends and fell in love over and over with all the animals.  I miss everyone every day; the staff, volunteers and my animals.  I wonder how everyone is doing.  I especially miss Trudy, Kamla and Dhapu since I worked with them the most.

I’m already planning my return trip and if anyone is interested in going please, email me!  Whether with me or on your own, I can tell you everything and organize your trip down to the last detail!  How to get there, where to stay, transportation to and from the hospital, what to expect, where to eat, etc.,  This is exactly what Love Infinitely Project is here for.  I’ll even help you fundraise to pay for your trip.  Eventually, LIP will be able to pay for partial and full trips to places like Animal Aid.  In the meantime, we can help guide the way!

I got a sweet certificate and a samosa party on my last day!

Visit Animal Aid’s website here: http://www.animalaidunlimited.org

Click here for their Facebook Page.

The photo gallery from my time at Animal Aid is here: http://fallintoadventure.shutterfly.com/pictures/708

Get involved!

♥∞

~B

Girl Who Is Changing the World: Brenda Rodriguez

18 Nov Brenda

“Happiness hit her like a train on a track”

~ Florence and the Machine

Hi everyone! Now that Brenda is fully immersed into Fall Into Adventure we’ve taken over the blog to wish her a very special birthday by honoring her as the Girl Who’s Changing the World. Brenda is the most giving, loving, and absolutely amazing person I know. Not only do I consider her my mentor, but one of my best friends. I’m a better person just by knowing her, and I think a lot of us at LIP would agree with that statement. She followed her heart and hasn’t given up on her dreams – in this process she brought us all together. Thanks to her I’ve found my tribe of sisters and best friends.

Brenda – you’ve changed my world a million times over. Happy Birthday, and here’s to another year of wishes coming true! -xoxo-  Noelle

I’m thrilled to take part in this very special Brenda’s Birthday edition of our Girl Who Is Changing The World feature!  I’ve wanted to write about Brenda Rodriguez (who you know as the founder of the Love Infinitely Project!!!) for months, but as she moves into the next year of her beautiful life, it now feels truly appropriate.  In addition to being one of my most admired heroes, Brenda is absolutely one of the best friends I’ve ever had the privilege of knowing.

Her determination, her optimism, her refusal to accept mediocrity, her passion for compassion, and her bravery in attempting to change the world in a dramatic way ALL inspire me daily.

I met Brenda at Animal Acres, a farm animal sanctuary outside of Los Angeles.  At the farm, we bonded over our mutual love for the goats and piggies and our dream of creating a vegan world, but once I got home and tracked her down on Twitter, I found we have much more than animal activism in common.  We were both borderline obsessed with one of our favorite musical artists, Tristan Prettyman (a constant source of inspiration for us both!), we both regarded Joyologist Tricia Huffman as a spiritual guru, we both had an inappropriate crush on 71-year-old James Cromwell, and we can both quote Love Actually more than is healthy.  We became immediate friends and started attending live music shows and volunteer events together, and within a few weeks I knew she would become a permanent fixture in my life.  I feel so blessed, because if you asked me to describe my ideal friend using the best of my imagination, I’m not sure I could even come close to describing Brenda; I would never believe that such a person could exist!

As you probably know, Brenda is currently celebrating her birthday volunteering at the Elephant Nature Park in Chiang Mai, Thailand (after which she’ll be spending the next month helping other needy animals and children across Thailand and India).  Her devotion to selflessness amazes me daily.  While I already miss her so so much, I am ecstatic for the countless lives that will be touched by her generosity of spirit.  When she returns, she’ll be continuing to grow the Love Infinitely Project with the ultimate goal of creating a global network of volunteer activities that will transform the world we live in.  I hope you’ll all take time to support her work, shop the Love Infinitely store (my Love Infinitely apparel has practically become my uniform!) and share her story!

In closing, I’ll offer five final words that have come to epitomize the way I feel about Brenda.  I’ve been able to sing them to her when prompted as part of a crowd sing-along at countless Makepeace Brothers concerts, but I don’t say them directly to her nearly enough:

Brenda: “I want to thank you.” ~ Jessica

♥∞

~ Jessica & Noelle ~

Follow B on Twitter in Thailand: @iamsunshine78

Follow Jessica on Twitter: @jlschluet

Follow Noelle on Twitter: @NoelleBobo

 

**If you know a super rad girl that you would like to nominate for our ‘Girls Who Are Changing the World’ feature, send them to us at: loveinfinitelyproject@gmail.com